Positive Coping Skills for Dealing with Stress Talk to a friendUse positive self-talk/a coping statementIncrease the time you spend with your close circle of friends and familyExerciseMake lists to minimize the overwhelming feeling that stress producesWrite in a journalAsk for helpPrepare in advance so you can minimize stressListen to soothing musicRead a bookDeal with the stress by confronting it head-onStop and take deep breathsRemove yourself from the situationSay tehillimSpeak with a professional (school guidance counselor or therapist)